Way too many man allow their girl or wife to boss them around, act out, or manipulate them into getting their way. This is no good as it may solve the problem short term but long term puts you into an unhappy relationship that takes too much from you, and gives you back too little. It's good to expect a lot from your girl, that she cleans the house, takes care of the kids, does laundry, makes u food, does groceries, and that she does so on time, done well and not with an attitude. Of course it means u need to deliver yourself also a lot, pay all bills, give financial security, build safe environment, take her out, make her laugh, turn her on, etc.